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Greatness

Greatness is the quality of attaining Goodness & Gentleness.

The attainment of Goodness is the pathway to Wellness.

Wellness is the attainment of Health, Wealth & Wisdom.

The attainment of Gentleness is the pathway to Happiness.

Happiness is the attainment of Contentment, Fulfilment & Joy.

Gentleness is the attainment of Oneness, Equality & Choice.

Goodness is the attainment of Acceptance, Allowance & Approval.

A Great Life is Expansive & Effortless.

When I flow effortlessly through Life with expansiveness, I will attain Greatness.

Greatness is the attainment of my Power, Authority & Ability.

Choosing to Live

Life is a choice.

Life and death is a duality that we are programmed to accept as our reality.

The question is: “Am I choosing to Live, or am I trying not to die”.

Surviving death, surviving disaster, is not living, it is a survival existence.

Choosing to live is choosing Life.

Life is the product of my Love & my Light.

The more power of Love and authority of Light that is present in my reality, the greater is my ability to live Life well.

Choosing to live is consciously choosing how I choose to live. It is choosing my own reality.

Consciously choosing my own reality is the only way to live my Life. Any other way is not my way, it’s another’s way or another way.

Life becomes a conscious choice when I awaken to the reality that I choose my own reality.

When I know that I choose life and I choose to have choice in my life, then and only then can I start choosing to live.

Choosing to Die

We all choose to die at some time.

Choosing to live in this world permanently or eternally is the wish of an ego that believes itself to be mortal and fated to die for ever.

When an unawakened ego chooses to die it is called suicide.

When an awakened Soul chooses to die it is called enlightenment.

Once I am enlightened and awakened to my vision, mission and purpose in life, then I know why I am here.

I will also know when my life’s mission is complete because my purpose will be attained and my vision fulfilled.

Once I have completed my reason for being here in this life-time, I will choose to move on, or pass on, or passover to my next life adventure.

An unawakened ego choose to die when they are old, worn-out and have lost their passion for life.

An awakened Soul chooses to live until they are old and then to die young as late as possible.

Our ego chooses to die when our Spirit chooses to live and become reborn.

My Soul Never Says No!

In the Absolute Realm of my Soul, ‘no’ does not exist. There is no duality. Yes & No is a duality.

In the Absolute Realm of my Soul, my Soul always says Yes!

My Soul always answers me in the affirmative.

My Soul answers all my affirmations and gives to my Self whatever I affirm.

My thoughts, words and deeds are my affirmations.

My thoughts words and deeds are therefore creative.

My Soul never says no because my Soul has given my Self unconditional choice.

It is my conditions that I put on my life that decide whether I say yes or no.

My Soul has no conditions for my Self.

My Self creates the conditions for my life itself.

When my Soul agrees with the choices of my Self, it expresses Joy that becomes my inspiration and empowers me to fulfil that choice.

Without the Soul’s agreement and authority, there is neither joy nor inspiration and I will need my will power to achieve my ego’s desires.

My Soul is a Capitalist

A Capitalist has the wealth to pursue their own business.

When I pursue the business of my Soul, I will inherit my Wealth.

My Wealth is my emotional power.

My power is always available to pursue that which my Soul has authorised.

I have the authority of my Soul to follow my Life Path.

My Wealth is aligned with the Path of my Soul.

A Capitalist is the owner of capital.

My Soul has the capital to manifest whatever it chooses or desires.

A Capitalist is one who owns or controls the means for producing Wealth.

My Soul only manifests Abundance.

My ego Self is capable of producing either scarcity and lack or gluttony and extravagance.

My Soul only ever produces Wealth.

My ego Self is capable of producing riches or poverty.

My Soul is my Capital.

Being my Soul is Capital.

Being In Attendance

Being in Attendance means:

• Turning up for Life
• Being awake to Life
• Being alert to my messages
• Being aware of my energy
• Being an Attendant of my Soul
• Attending to my Soul’s directions
• Focusing on my Vision
• Knowing the reason and the meaning of my Purpose
• Being committed to my Mission
• Aligning with my Path
• Giving thought to my authority and choice
• Meeting my emotional energy needs
• Being present in the moment

Being in Attendance is attending Life School to learn my Life Lessons that lead me forward and allow me to heed and give notice to my Destiny for this Life-time.

Attention, Attention, Attention

To achieve an aim or goal in this physical world requires my intention, my attention and my action.

It requires:

• My intention, the aim or goal that I want to achieve. or where I want to be.
• My attention to where I am right now.
• My action plan as to how my intention will be achieved or how I am going to get there.

To attain my Vision for my life requires: Attention, Attention, Attention.

• My Attention to the image of my Ideal World.
• My Attention to what is already ideal in my world.
• My Attention to whatever is offering resistance to my Ideal World becoming a realisation and manifesting as a reality.

When I attend to the image of my Ideal World, I can see my Vision for this Life-time.

When I attend to placing my focus on the positive attainments, attributes and qualities that already exist in my reality, I allow more of the same to materialise into my future.

When I attend to no longer giving another thought to the fears, limiting beliefs, dramas and attachments in my life, I allow them to disappear from my reality.

When I pay attention to the thoughts that are creating my World and retain only the thoughts that are Ideal, my attention will repay me handsomely.

Patronising

Patronising is the act of playing the patron in relationship to another.

When I assume the role of patron or father figure, I am assuming that I have authority over or I am the authority for someone else.

I assume a superior status to the person that I am patronising.

Patronising is arrogance that declares it has authority over another’s choice and seeks for another to be patronised or humbled.

When I am frustrated with someone’s inability and become patronising of their actions, I am being critical.

When I am intolerant of someone else’s choices or their incapacity to make the right choice, I am being patronising of their authority and I am being cynical.

When I get angry with someone’s incompetence, lack of motivation and drive, I am patronising their will power and I am being sarcastic.

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit because it is the least effective way of allowing someone to become inspired and empowered.

When I am being critical, cynical or sarcastic; when I am criticising, condemning or complaining; I am arrogantly patronising the recipient of my attention because of my pride in my need to be right and my greed in wanting to be better and superior to all others.

Good, Better, Best

From my physical perspective, I see myself as good.

Others may judge me to be bad from their perspective, but I see myself as good.

Personal Development is about myself getting better.

Getting better is about acquiring more knowledge via my 5 physical senses.

Getting better is also a requirement when I am sick, ill or ailing and not feeling good.

My goal is to become better and better at living in this physical world, so that I can be the best that I can be.

The paradox is that the best that I can be is not the best that I can be.

From a spiritual perspective, I am already the best that I can be.

To become better, I am required to grow and develop my Self spiritually as well as physically.

Getting better spiritually is about acquiring more experience via my 3 intuitive senses.

There is no limit to my personal spiritual growth and how better that I can become spiritually.

In my physical world, I am good, getting better, with my intention to become the best.

In my spiritual world, I am my best, getting better, with my intention to be Good.

“None is Good but the Lord”

My Soul is Good.

My Self is getting better through my Journey of Personal Spiritual Development & Growth.

It is not my intention to become better than other people or better than my Soul.

Being better than others will never make me the best or Good.

Qualified

I am qualified to live my life.

I am not qualified to live another’s life for them.

Qualifications are Man’s judgment of Man’s ability to serve Man.

Man needs to know that Man is qualified to do what Man needs Man to do.

My Soul knows that I am qualified to follow my path.

I do not need to train to follow my path, I just need to follow it.

I do not need to qualify to become who I am, I just am who I am.

I do not need to qualify for life. I have already qualified. I am alive and well and living my life.

Man needs to qualify me to do what Man wants me to do.

My Soul has already qualified me for my life.

I am already qualified to discern my path and the quality of the life that I choose for my Self.

Resentment

Resentment is the negative emotion that I feel when I am not accepting my Destiny.

Resentment is the feeling that I am not allowed to have what I think is best for my Self.

What I think is best for me is what my ego self wants and desires.

When I do not receive what I want, I feel resentment.

Resentment is the desire to have what has arrived, re-sent, because it is not well received.

My resentmentment is my sub-conscious way of expressing my ego’s dissatisfaction at what has been received.

I will express resentment to any person that I am able to judge as guilty and blame for not allowing what I want to become mine.

Once I allow my life path to flow effortlessly and I become accepting of what ever turns up, everything I receive is perfect, I have no need for anything to be re-sent, and resentment is an emotion that is no longer expressed or felt.

I cannot resent that which I accept as an opportunity and a gift.

Controlling Fate & Destiny

“It is my fate to control my destiny”.

Whenever I try to control my destiny, I will follow my fate.

My Destiny is my Life Path that has been chosen by my Soul.

I can choose to follow my Soul’s Path or I can choose to follow the choice of my ego Self. I always have choice.

My ego will follow the path that leads to what it believes it wants and needs. This is my fate.

My fate only becomes my Destiny once I consciously choose, that what I really want and need, is to follow my Soul’s Path for this life-time.

My Soul’s Path leads to Personal Spiritual Development & Growth, which is always my Soul’s Choice and the Destiny of my Self.

My ego cannot control my Destiny. It can only ‘Accept’ it.

“It is my Destiny to control my fate”.

I control my fate by not following my fate. I control my fate by following my Destiny.

I will follow my fate by default. When I follow my fate, I am not in control of my fate, it just turns up as a consequence of my sub-conscious thoughts.

When I try to consciously control my life, I get my fate, because I get the essence of what I consciously focus my thoughts on.

When I let go of control and allow my life to occur, I receive my Destiny because I allow my Soul to choose it for me.

I cannot receive my Destiny until I choose what My Soul has chosen and I cannot know what my Soul has chosen until my Destiny arrives. Therefore control is useless.

Whether I am receiving my Destiny or experiencing my fate is just a matter of perspective that is determined by my beliefs and my thoughts about what is currently occuring in my life.

Unless I have awoken to my Spiritual Path, which is my Destiny, I will have no distinction between my fate and my destiny and I will have no control over either.

The Role of Victimhood

When I can see the victimhood of another person, I can no longer become their victim.

When I can see another in the role of the victim they cannot be the villain and therefore I cannot be their victim.

When I have no distinction between the victim and the villain, there is no duality, and no drama exists. Equality is achieved and victimhood is overcome.

When I am no longer a victim of life, I am no longer a victim in my life.

When I know that I am the creator of my own life, I am no longer the victim of my life.

I cannot be the victim of my life and the villain that created it.

When I am both the victim and the villain in my life, I have overcome the duality and I have achieved a state of being in equanimity with myself. My Soul shares equanimity with my Self.

I can only ever be a victim of my own choices or my choice not to choose.

Once I know that I have choice, I know that I create my reality with my choices and I am a creator by choice.

I am a creator whether I choose to be or not.

When I know that I created my own victimhood, then I know that I can uncreate it and I never need to play that role again in my life.

Being Idle

Being Idle is a state of mind not a state of being.

Being idle is the judgment of an active mind that needs to accomplish and achieve.

A mind that gains its power from the success of accomplishment, sees non-achievement as failure.

Being idle is seen as failing to achieve, which will drain one’s emotional energy reserves.

Being idle will result in the boredom of doing nothing, which is seen as laziness.

Being idle will result in failing to do what I have to do, which is my fate.

Not being idle will ensure that I work hard to achieve everything that I want and need in life.

Working hard will ensure that I do not fail in life.

Whether I am being idle or working hard, succeeding or failing, being  active or boringly lazy, my life is not effortless.

Effortlessness is a State of Being that allows me to flow effortlessly through life with the full ability of my power and authority.

Effortlessness is my idyll and my ideal, yet I am never idle.