“The End of My Tether”

When I reach the “end of my tether”, I have fully explored the limits of one aspect of a duality in this relative world.

In this relative dual reality world, everything has an opposite. Anything without an opposite is absolutely divine.

Whatever side of an opposing duality that we are experiencing, it will have a definite limit, because relativity is not infinite.

We find the limit to our dual reality existence when our power and authority runs out and we reach the end of our tether.

When I run out of power, I react with anger.

When I run out of authority, I react with intolerance.

When I run out of ability, I react with frustration.

Anger, intolerance and frustration all lie at the end of my tether.

When I connect to my power and authority, there is no tether, and I am free to experience my infinite potential for creative ability.

Disconnected & Detached

We are connected to the Absolute World of Spirit, whether we are consciously aware of it or not.

We are attached to the relative world of dual physical reality, whether we are aware of it or not.

Disconnected means that we are unaware of our spiritual existence, our spiritual heritage and our spiritual essence – our Soul.

Disconnected people are usually labelled as Atheist, Agnostic or Humanist, although many religious followers remain disconnected from their True Source.

Detached means that we are aware of our dual physical and spiritual existence but not attached to either. We are free to explore, experience and discover Life.

When attached to our physical existence, we are tied or tethered to it and our spiritual expansion and growth is limited and restricted.

When we are disconnected from our True Source, we are unaware and unable to connect to our True Power and Authority, which supports and guides us on our spiritual journey.

Being Sentient

A sentient Being is a conscious Being who has the awareness of spirit as an emotional feeling.

Being sentient is using our spiritual sense of ‘feeling’.

Being sentient is feeling the essence of who we are emotionally.

Emotion is pure spirit divided by gender, polarity and intensity.

Being sentient is the ability to discern frequencies of polarity, wavelengths of gender and vibrations of intensity in our emotional state of Being.

Being Aware is the ability to be sentient (feeling), intelligent (knowing), and visionary (seeing).

Being Conscious is being awake and experiencing the physical, material world with our physical senses.

Being alert to both our awareness and awakeness is the conscious-awareness of being a Spiritual Being on a conscious, physical journey in this relative, dual reality world called Planet Earth.

Problem Solving

When we attempt to solve a problem that doesn’t yet exist, we actually create the problem.

Before we can solve the problem, we must first understand what caused the problem.

The problem is always that we have missed an opportunity to learn and grow.

Problems need solutions otherwise they lead to chaos and disaster.

The best way to deal with a problem is not to solve it but to learn the lesson for which it was created.

Lessons are opportunities for growth and as we learn our lessons and grow, we avoid having problems in life.

Instead of enjoying solving problems, learn not to have problems.

The way to avoid getting a lesson is to listen to our messages.

Hearing our messages is the way to an effortless life.

When we don’t hear the message, we get an opportunity to learn a lesson.

When we don’t use that opportunity, it becomes a problem.

When we learn the lesson by hearing our messages, we have found the solution to not ever having problems.

The problem is always that we are not awakened, not aware, and not listening.

Delighted & Enlightened

Delight means ‘of light’ and is the power that accompanies our authority.

Delighted means receiving the power of a positive emotion of Love.

Delightful means emanating or transmitting a positive emotion of Love.

Delighting in is feeling the positive emotion of a word, state of being, or experience.

We are delighted by our state of being in the positive emotion of Joy.

Enlighten means revealing a spiritual awareness.

Enlightened means knowing our true authority (our Light).

Enlightening is a message or thought that reveals or manifests a spiritual awareness of our path.

We are enlightened by our attainment of knowing the truth of our unique and exclusive path in Life.

We are delighted when enlightened, though not necessarily enlightened when delighted.

Dead to Spirit

Being ‘dead to spirit’ is being ‘unawakened’.

People who are unawakened fear the Spirit of the Dead.

Unawakened Souls see the spirit of the dead as ghosts.

Ghostly apparitions are created by our fears.

What we fear appears, including apparitions, ghosts and the spirits of the dead.

Awakened Souls know that it is the Spirit of Life that is important, not the spirit of the dead.

With enough Life Spirit or Life Force Energy, there is no fear and nothing to fear.

Without fear there is no negative energy to create the ‘living dead’, that those who are dead to spirit experience.

Life Energy is a harmonious balance of Light & Love that resonates with the Truth of who we are and why we are here.

Raising the Dead

Spiritualists believe that they speak to the souls of departed relatives and relate to departed souls in the after life.

We create our own reality, therefore whatever we believe, we create.

Spiritualism is a belief system and therefore a religion.

Belief systems are common beliefs held by many people. The more people that hold the same or similar beliefs, the stronger the belief system or religion becomes.

The stronger a belief system, the more potential it has to manifest and create its own beliefs as reality.

One of our strongest belief systems is modern science. Science is the main religion of an atheist and an agnostic.

With enough belief, we can raise the dead and have a conversation with departed souls.

The question is: “why would we choose to”?

Can a dead relative really help us on our spiritual path?

If they were unaware of our path in life, why would they know it in their after-life?

Following our ancestral lineage is our fate in life. Whether that lineage is alive or dead is irrelevant.

Awakened Souls follow their destiny and their ‘Light’. They do not linger in an ‘after-life’.

Frightened of Our Own Shadow

We are frightened by the fear of a false reality appearing real.

A fear is a false reality created by a limiting or false belief.

Fear becomes very real when we make it our reality because of our beliefs.

The only energy that fear has is the magnitude and the force of the belief that creates it.

Our false and limiting beliefs become our shadow.

Fear is created in the absence of Light, Knowing and Truth.

With sufficient force of Light and magnitude of Love, all fear can be overcome.

Overcoming fear is the Way to fulfil our potential in Life.

We are frigthtened of our own shadow because it is our shadow self, in the absence of Light, that creates all our fears.

Co-dependency

Co-dependency is a partnership where each partner provides what the other partner needs, both physically and emotionally.

It is a balanced agreement based on give & take and compromise.

Partners are unaware of their dependency on each other emotionally until they become aware of their own emotional needs.

All the time we are in a co-dependent relationship, we are unaware of our emotional needs because they are automatically being met sub-consciously by our partner.

When our emotional needs are being met, we have no emotional needs, and therefore, no opportunity to become aware of what they are.

The way out of co-dependency is to seek independence. Yet we cannot become independent within a co-dependent relationship until we learn to consciously meet our own emotional needs.

The journey towards independence therefore, requires time alone in the ‘desert’.

Gender & Polarity

Sensitivity is being emotionally connected to our positive female energy.

Exclusivity is being rationally detached with our positive male energy.

When we are sensitively connected emotionally, we access our Power.

When we are exclusively detached rationally, we access our Authority.

When we are exclusively-connected, sensitively-detached and emotionally-rational, we combine the male and female gender of our energy in a positive polarity, and we access our Ability.

With a negative polarity and a female gender, energy is irrational, inclusive and attached by our beliefs, needs and dramas.

Negative male energy, by comparison, is unemotional, disconnected and insensitive to our true power, authority and ability.

Unemotional and irrational have no sense of ‘feeling’.

Disconnected and inclusive have no sense of ‘knowing’.

Insensitive and attached have no sense of ’seeing’.

Power has no divided gender.

Authority has no divided polarity.

Ability has both gender and polarity that is balanced and united.

Growth & Maturity

Maturity is a stage of development between adolescence and old age.

Growth is an evolution of our reality in space and time.

Maturity concerns stability and certainty.

Growth is about expansiveness and personal experience.

Things grow as part of their connection to nature.

Things mature as a natural progression towards old age.

Growth is infinite, eternal and boundless.

Maturity is limited by age and experience.

Fruit matures before it goes bad.

Consciousness grows on a path towards Goodness.

Physical maturity leads eventually to death.

Spiritual growth is infinite, eternal and continuous.

The Provider & The Dependent

The Soul is the Provider for the Self.

The Self is Dependent on the Soul for its Power & Authority.

The Soul is Dependent on the Self for its Ability to develop and grow.

The Self provides the opportunity for the Soul to become spiritually expansive.

When the Self becomes disconnected from its Soul, it seeks alternative ways of providing what it needs or what it thinks it needs.

During infancy, the Self is dependent on its Earthly family to provide its physical and emotional needs.

The journey of the Self towards Independence requires it to take responsibility for providing for itself.

The journey of the Soul towards Independence requires it to take responsibility for its Self.

True Independence is allowing our Inner Self or Soul to provide everything that we need for our Self.

Independent Provision is not created by being independent of the provider but by being Independent with our Provider.

Power

Our society currently operates on the belief that power requires ability:

• The ability of intelligence to learn and retain knowledge, because knowledge is power.
• The ability to use that knowledge to earn money, because money is power.
• The ability to use that money to ascend the hierarchy of society, because status is power.

Knowledge, money and status have become the gods of modern society, because we believe that they hold the key to our power.

In Truth – Ability requires both Power and Authority.

Power has no Ability without Authority, and Authority has no Ability without Power.

We connect to our Authentic Power by feeling the emotions of our Soul.

We connect to our Personal Authority by knowing the Truth of our Soul.

We connect to our Ability in Life by seeing who we really are (our Power) and why we are here (our Authority).

We are all creators with the potential to connect to our infinite Power. Our Ability to connect to our Power is limited only by our Authority to use it as our Soul intends.

The Analyst

The Analyst highlights the obstacles that are causing resistance to the flow of Life.

The Analyst identifies the causes of what we have mis-created in Life.

The Analyst sees Life from many different perspectives.

The Analyst knows that everyone creates their own version of reality.

The Analyst requires the skills of both consciousness and awareness.

Without awareness, the Analyst will seek perfect solutions and need to be right.

With the need to be right and perfect, the Analyst will become an anal-yst.

An Analyst cannot perform with their head stuck up their rectum.

The Analyst knows that what appears to be a problem in life, is in fact an opportunity for personal growth and development.

The Analyst gives direction to the lost, clarity to the confused and ability to the frustrated, on their unique, individual and exclusive journey through Life.

Ascending the Mountain

We ascend the mountain of Life because our shadow is cast longest from the summit.

The great paradox is that the journey to the sea involves climbing the mountain first.

The unawakened soul who climbs the mountain will find nothing at the top.

The awakened soul who ascends the mountain finds a clear picture of their shadow cast all the way down to the sea.

We must first climb the mountain to see the enormity of the task that our journey down stream holds for us.

All rivers have their source at the top of the mountain.

This is where we are invited to enter the ‘River of Life’ and flow effortlessly down to our ‘Source’ in the ocean below.

We do not descend the river but flow with the spirit of the river on our journey back to our Source.

The journey up the mountain is the ‘road to perdition’.

The journey down the river is the ‘road to purgatory’.

The ocean is where ‘paradise’ exists.