Fear of Failure

Fear of Failure is rooted in our belief that there is something that we have to do.

Fear of Failure creates a need to achieve, to accomplish and to succeed.

We have already succeeded in becoming a human being.

We succeed our parents and we become like our parents, without even trying.

Our Soul’s sole interest is in who we are becoming.

There is nothing that we ‘have to’ do.

We are human beings, not human doings.

We have come here to Be – to Become.

Who we become is our Attainment in Life.

Our Attainments are the quality of the States of Being that are attributable to us.

We always are, and always will be.

We cannot ever fail to Be.

The Journey

We are all on the same journey, yet following different life paths.

We are all on a Journey to:

1. Experience our fate.
2. Awaken to our destiny.
3. Bring our vision into reality.

The Journey of Jesus is called “Easter” and tells of his:

1. Crucifixion or fate on the Cross.
2. Resurrection or awakening to his destiny.
3. Ascension or the creation of his vision of Heaven on Earth.

Dante called his Journey “A Divine Comedy”, which took him:

1. Through the Inferno of his fate in Hell.
2. Through the Purgatory of his awakening.
3. To the Paradise of his Heaven on Earth.

All Journeys commence from the Absolute Realm of Oneness as an incarnation into the Relative world of our fate in dual reality. Then follows an awakening to the existence of Spirit and a realisation of the triality of the Holy Trinity that creates the  Kingdom of Heaven as an experience on Earth.

Attention

Attention is either something that we have or something that we need.

Children who need attention, become extrovert and learn to become the focus of other people’s attention.

Children who have attention and focus, can create what they need by attraction and become introvert.

What we focus our attention on, we attract to us, either consciously or sub-consciously.

Extroverts, who need attention, control energy in a more active way and adopt the drama of either an intimidator or a poor me.

Introverts, who have attention, control energy in a more passive way and adopt the drama of either an interrogator or an aloof.

Whatever intention, aim, or goal that we have, it requires our attention and focus before we can take action to obtain it.

With enough attention to our intention, the only action required is to allow it to manifest.

Gender & Polarity

The polarity of our thoughts and emotions is either positive or negative.

The gender of our mental and emotional energy is either male or female.

Polarity is the direction of our perspective and is determined by our point of view.

Gender is the clarity of our perception and is ascertained by our feelings.

With dual reality comes choice and with choice comes opposing realities.

Our choice of perspective is its polarity.

Our choice of perception is its gender.

Male gender perceives the world to be rational from a positive perspective and irrational from a negative perspective.

Female gender perceives the world to be emotional from a positive perspective and unemotional from a negative perspective.

Male gender learns and grows and moves forward by adopting a rational perspective and becomes stuck by other people’s irrational behaviour and their own unemotional behaviour.

Female gender learns and grows with an emotional perception of life, whilst becoming confused and lost by their own irrational behaviour and other people’s unemotional behaviour.

The gender and polarity of our thoughts and emotions determines our potential ability and the intensity of our Life.

A Space of Love

When we need our space, our Space is without Love.

When we are without Love, we need Space or distance between our Self and the person or people who are draining our energy.

Others deprive us of our power when we give our authority away to them.

We get close to people who give us energy and meet our emotional needs. We need space from those who don’t.

When we have enough emotional energy or power, we have enough space to include everyone else in what we are doing.

When we connect to our true power, we create a Space of Love in which we are being emotionally positive.

The size of our Space of Love is proportional to the magnitude of our emotionl power.

The magnitude of our Space of Love is proportional to the Time that we have to share with other people.

Father & Son

Father and Son are two thirds of the Holy Trinity. They are metaphors for the Soul and the Self.

Our Soul is the Father in Heaven, and resides in the Realm of the Absolute.

Our Self is the Son on Earth that is born into the Realm of Relative Dual Reality.

The Father has, as any Good Father would, given the Son free will to live a life of their own choice.

The Son has covenanted with the Father, before incarnating, the purpose for this specifice life-time.

The Father, like any Good Father, is always there to give guidance and support. The Son just has to ask.

We are all ‘Prodigal Sons’ whose father is waiting for us to awaken to the inheritance of our Destiny and return home.

When the Self and the Soul become united as Father and Son they form the Divine Holy Trinity with the Oneness of Spirit, known as the Whole Spirit or The Holy Spirit.

Sexual & Sensual

Sexual and Sensual are not a duality.

A sexual encounter can be sensual or insensitive.

A sensual relationship has emotional feeling.

A sexual relationship has physical feeling.

An intimate relationship is sexual and sensual, physical and emotional.

Sensitive people feel other people emotionally.

Insensitive people feel other people physically.

When we are sensitive to another’s physical touch, it is not sensual and not wanted and may be seen as sexual.

When we are insensitive to another’s physical touch, it is seen as neither sexual nor sensual.

When we are sexually sensitive to physical orgasm only, it is not sensual.

When orgasm is the climax of both a physically and emotionally sensitive experience, we are being sexually-sensual and sensually-sexual.

Romance has emotional sensuality without physical contact.

Lust has physical contact without sensual feeling.

Intimacy requires sexuality, sensuality and sensitive-detachment.

The Holy Spirit

The Holy Spirit or Whole Spirit is pure Energy undivided by gender.

Undivided or whole Spiritual Energy is defined as Holy or Divine.

Our highest experience of Divine Spirit is the bliss or ecstasy of Divine Joy.

Divine Joy or ‘Love’ is experienced when opposing genders come into harmony on the same frequency and intensity of vibration.

This can happen when two people make love with intimacy and  harmony in mutual togetherness with an orgasmic climax.

This can also happen when a body of people called a ‘church’ worship together in harmony and is called a ‘Revival’.

Jesus said “Where two or more worship in my name, there will I be”.

When two or more people harmonise their energetic gender and intensity with aligned polarity,they connect with the authority of their Christ Consciousness and their power of the Holy Spirit.

Connecting to our Power is just an energetic experience with no Ability, unless it is as a result of connecting to our own Authority.

Spirituality & Religion

Religion is inclusive. It follows one authority that includes all followers.

Spirituality is exclusive. It follows one unique authority exclusive to each individual person.

Religion is empowered by the unity of the body of the church that is called the Holy Spirit.

Spirituality is empowered by the unity of the Self with its Soul, which is the Whole Spirit.

Religion seeks Oneness with all people.

Spirituality seeks Oneness of the Self & the Soul.

Religion follows the authority of the church’s doctrine.

Spirituality follows the authority of the Inner Coach or Soul.

An inclusive religion is for the followers of one religious leader.

An exclusive Spirituality is leading one’s own Life, following the vision, mission and purpose of one’s own Soul.

Serving

Self-worth is our power to serve others.

Self-confidence is our authority to serve others.

Self-esteem is our ability to serve others.

When we serve others, we are in the service of our Soul.

When we serve our self, we are self-serving, selfish, and in the service of our self.

Whatever we give in service to others, we receive in service from others.

When we serve only the self, we alienate our self from others, in an alien world full of aliens.

The Soul knows that we have a ‘lien’ or connection with all others.

Our strength of connection to all others is the strength of our service to all others.

The only thing that we are required to give to others is our self.

The best way to serve others is to just be our Self as our Soul.

“My Quotes”

“We have to lose our freedom before we can find our freedom”.

“Freedom lies beyond the boundaries of our comfort zone”.

“God’s creations are self-perpetuating. Man’s creations require energy to maintain them”.

“With the authority of our Soul, we are empowered”.

“When everything is black & white, there is no colour in our life”.

“Self-worth is how much we value our Self”.

“Circumstances are what keep coming around when we stand still”.

“The wisest Man in the world does not choose to be the richest Man in the world”.

“A miser has the ability to be miserable in abundance”.

“When we share our poverty, we both get poorer”.

“When we judge another as guilty, justice becomes an act of revenge”.

The Need to Succeed

A low status creates a need to attain.

A lack of knowledge creates a need to accomplish.

A scarcity of money creates a need to achieve.

Low status, little knowledge and no money, creates a need to succeed.

“Being born with a silver spoon” means that success has been succeeded or inherited by virtue of the status, knowledge and material wealth of the family into which one is born.

Being born into an influential family means that there is no need to succeed. However, whereas there may develop a need to accomplish new areas of knowledge or the need to achieve making ones own money, there is no need to attain status as this comes with the succession.

Status gives a false sense of self-esteem but is without the true power of Self-Worth.

Knowledge gives a false sense of self-worth but is without the true authority of Self-Confidence.

Money gives a false sense of self-confidence but is without the true ability of Self-Esteem.

True Success is:

Attaining the Self-Confidence of being Fulfilled with our own Authority.

Acccomplishing the Self-Worth of the Joy of our own Power.

Achieving the Self-Esteem of the Contentment of our own Ability.

Success

Success in our society is measured by:

1. The attainment of status and position in the hierarchy of our society. This gives us perceived power over other people.

2. The accomplishment of learning knowledge and the qualifications to be knowledgeable. This gives us perceived authority over other people.

3. The achievement of obtaining money and the ability to make money. This gives us the perceived ability over other people, to have and do whatever we want.

Status, knowledge and material wealth define our degree of success and how much influence one has in society.

Influence is the ability to have power and authority over other people.

Unless people with influence continually create more status money and knowledge for themselves, their influence will decline.

Influence never made anyone truly Happy, although it will meet an emotional need to be better than others, which is greed.

Influence means: I am better than you because of my superior power, authority and ability to decide the fate of other people.

Successfully achieving Happiness is not obtained by seeking influence over other people, nor by allowing others to exert their power and authority over you.

The Success of Happiness is the fulfilment of our own exclusive authority; the joy of our own individual power and the contentment of our own unique ability.

Motivation

Motivation is our motive or reason for doing something.

When our motive is clear, we are motivated to achieve our goals and aims.

Our motive is usually the achievement of what we want and desire.

Our greatest motivation is the need to achieve, win, accomplish and succeed.

Without motivation, we will need to be motivated by someone else.

The role of a leader, manager or supervisor is to motivate their followers and workers to achieve an agreed task.

The achievement of tasks and goals is driven by motivation.

The attainment of attributes is empowered by inspiration.

We need motivation to achieve things that we are not empowered to do.

We are instantly empowered to attain the desires of our Soul.

The Essence of the Soul

To become the Essence of our Soul, our Self is required to learn the senses of the Soul.

Only when the Self has and uses the senses of the Soul will it become the Essence of the Soul and the Soul will become the Essence of its Self.

The Essence of the Soul is the essence of who the Self aspires to become.

For the Soul to experience the physical realm of Earth, the Self is, in essence, required to become the Soul in physical form.

The Soul senses the world emotionally through its ’feeling’.

The Soul senses the world mentally  through its ‘knowing’.

The Soul senses the world physically through its ’seing’.

When the Self sees, feels and knows its Self spiritually in the physical world, it becomes the Essence of its Soul.

We develop physically using our 5 physical senses and we grow spiritually by using our 3 spiritual senses.

Learning and using our 3 spiritual senses is ‘essential’ to becoming the Essence of our Soul.