Sensitively Detached

Our Soul is Sensitively Detached from our Self.

Our Soul is spiritually sensitive (physically, mentally and emotionally in tune with the Self).

Yet the Soul is totally detached from the temptations of physical existence.

The sensitively-detached Soul continually communicates with its self to give direction and support.

The sensitively-detached Soul has given the Self total freedom of choice and is unconditionally approving, accepting and allowing of the choices that the Self makes.

The female sensitive Self loses power through its attachment to physical, material life.

The sensitive female spirit becomes negatively attached to life.

The detached male Self closes down its sensitivity and becomes insensitive to emotional, spiritual life.

The detached male spirit becomes negatively insensitive to life.

Exclusively Connected

Our Soul is exclusively-connected to our Self and is connected exclusively to our Self.

When our Self is exclusively connected to our Soul it becomes connected exclusively to the authority of our Soul.

To exclusively connect to the Authority of our Soul, the Self is required to overcome the duality of both its gender and polarity.

When born into physical reality, our energy is divided by gender and polarity.

At birth, we remain either connected (female gender) or become exclusive (male gender).

This division by gender closes our exclusive connection to our Soul.

In the absence of our exclusive connection to our own authority, we lose our direction or polarity.

Instead of being connected positively to our female gender, we become connected inclusively to other people who meet our emotional need for power.

Instead of being exclusively connected to our male gender, we become exclusively disconnected from other people and follow the authority of our fears and limiting beliefs.

Friendship

Friendship is a co-dependent relationship.

Friends depend on each other to meet each others emotional needs.

You are a friend to me because you meet my needs emotionally.

Friendship is a platonic relationship between like individuals.

I like you because you are like me and we have similar needs and beliefs.

Society dictates that we like our friends and love our relatives.

We are like our friends and we love the emotionally positive feelings that we need from our friends.

Our friends stop being friends when they stop meeting our needs emotionally.

Friends become enemies when they deprive us of our emotional power instead of supplying it.

Our enemies threaten our supply of emotional energy. This false and limiting belief is called fear.

True friendship is when we share the same truths or beliefs as another as well as meeting each others mutual needs.

Jealousy & Envy

Envy is wanting what someone else has.

Jealousy is the intense negative feeling that we get when we can’t have what we want from someone else.

jealousy is the curse of a co-dependent relationship.

Co-dependent partners care about each other.

They care about meeting each others emotional needs.

This creates a need to be needed. I need my partner to need me to care about them, so that they show that they are dependent on me to meet their needs emotionally.

When they stop needing me to meet their needs, then they will stop caring about meeting my needs.

The feeling of no longer being cared for and no longer being needed is Jealousy.

It is the envy that we feel regarding what we want and need from our partner and are no longer receiving.

We feel intense envy and jealousy when someone else is receiving what by right should be ours.

Jealousy is the fear of being disconnected from the person who we believe to be the source of our emotional energy and power.

Envy is the blessing of a co-dependent relationship.

We envy everything that we like and love about our partner.

We envy everything that we find attractive about our partner and attracts us to our partner.

“Well-Fare”

Well-Fare is a measure of how well we are faring or living – our well-being.

We fare well when we follow our True Path.

Our True Path is the path of our Soul because our Soul is always in a state of Faring Well.

Without the ‘well fare’ state of our Soul, we may become dependent on the welfare state of Man.

The Welfare State created by Man has only one ‘L’ and that is what we experience – one ‘ell of a state.

We fare well with our Soul once our earthly dues are paid in full. Our fare is paid for our Spiritual Journey of the Soul.

‘God-faring’ people travel the path of their Soul, living their vision and fulfilling their purpose for this life-time.

A ‘god-fearing’ person is living someone else’s vision and following a false god or idol created by their limiting beliefs and fears.

A god-fearing person will have to depend on the welfare of his fellow man.

God is a Jealous God

Our Soul is our representative of God on Earth.

Our Self is our representation of our Soul on Earth.

Our Soul resides in the world of the Absolute.

Our Self lives in the relative world of opposing realities.

Our Soul is without nothing, which is Divine.

Our Self is without everything, which is sin.

The only thing that our Soul is without is our Self.

The Soul has given its Self total freedom of choice.

The Soul is without the Self until the Self awakens and re-connects to its Soul.

The Soul needs the Self to follow the vision, mission and purpose for this incarnation.

This ‘need to be needed’ makes the Soul a “Jealous God”.

A jealous Soul, that needs its Self, will awaken its Self from this sinful world to the awareness of the reality of its Absolute Power, Authority and Ability.

Heart & Soul

In the Absolute Realm of Divinity, Heart & Soul are the same thing.

Our Heart & Soul is the core or centre and the Source of our Beingness.

The Source of our Beingness is from whence our Self originates.

The Source of our Beingness supplies us with both the power and the authority that enables us to follow an effortless life in this physical world.

In the physical world our Beingness is divided and our Soul becomes our self and our soul.

The purpose of Life is for the self to follow its Soul in order to connect to its power and authority.

Heart & Soul are synonyms or symbols for our Power & Authority.

The emotional power of our heart combines with the mental authority of our soul.

Once we connect to the vision, mission and purpose of our Soul, we automatically receive the true emotional power of our Heart.

When we put our Heart & Soul into Life we become authorised, empowered and fully enabled.

Connected & Attached

We are spiritually connected to souls of our own Monadic Group.

We are emotionally attached to people who meet our emotional needs.

Oue spiritual connection to another is eternal.

Our emotional attachment is a drama that we are acting out in this life-time.

Attachments are due to magnetic attraction.

Connectedness is Pure Attraction.

All souls are connected at the Soul level.

Souls of the same Monad or Monadic Group are most similar, most alike and most attractive to each other.

When a member of our own soul group comes into our life for the first time, it is as though we have known them for all eternity – which we have.

Attachments will align us with our fate.

Being spiritually connected is our destiny.

The Need to be Loved

We need to be Loved when we are disconnected from the Source of our Love.

Our Soul & Inner Coach is the Source of our Love.

Our Source of emotional power comes from the Heart of our Being. This is the Soul’s Love for its Self.

When disconnected from our Soul, we will seek our emotional power from the external world.

Whatever external power we seek is an emotional need.

Once connected to our True Emotional Power of Love from our Heart, we have no emotional need to be Loved – because we know that we are.

We connect to our Heart & Soul to receive Love. We attach our Self to another or a false god, as a substitute for the love that we need.

True Love flows in a positive direction from Source, through our Self, to the world as a whole.

The need to be Loved is the result of negative resistance, false beliefs, and life dramas that disconnect us from our Source.

Emotional Commitment

Women usually ask for an emotional commitment from their partner.

Men usually give their partner a physical commitment.

Most women want their partner to meet their needs emotionally. Even though they may be unaware of what their emotional needs are, they are aware of when they emotionally need their partner and when their needs are not being met.

Most men are conscious of what their material needs are but are usually unaware that their emotional needs exist.

Men historically have committed to meeting their families physical needs and have become the provider.

Women historically have committed to meeting their families emotional needs, yet have not been seen as the provider, but as being dependent on their man.

Independent people are dependent on their Self to provide everything they need both materially and emotionally.

Fate & Destiny

Fate and Destiny are not necessarily the same thing.

Fate & Destiny are not a dual reality.

Doom and destiny are a duality of our fate.

When we follow the gods of our ego self, we will always meet our doom.

When we follow the path of our Soul, we will experience our Destiny.

Our Soul holds the blue-print for our Destiny. This is our vision, mission & purpose in Life.

Our Destiny is to experience, explore and discover who we are and why we are here.

Our Destiny is individual, unique and exclusive to our Self.

Our ego self creates the reality of our doom with the limiting beliefs, emotional needs and life dramas that have become our sub-conscious programming and our fate.

We are fated to meet our doom until we are awakened to our Destiny.

Our fate becomes our Destiny, once we awaken to the conscious-awareness of our own Divine Reality.

Truly Selfish

Being Truly Selfish is being like our True Self. Our True Self is our Soul.

Being Truly Selfish is being like our Soul.

Selfish and unselfish are a duality of the ego Self.

When the ego is being selfish it is looking after the best interests of itself.

When the ego is being unselfish it is looking after the best interests of someone else’s ego self.

Selfish people put their self first.

Unselfish people put others first.

The Soul is Truly Selfish and knows that we are all equal and treats others as it would like to be treated itself.

When we do unto others as we would have others do unto us, we are being Soul-like and Truly Selfish.

The Soul knows that it is never in our long term best interests to do anything detrimental to another because in reality what we do to others we do unto ourselves.

The Law of Attraction determines that like energy is drawn unto itself. What ever energy we focus our thoughts words and action on, we will attract into our own experience.

When we allow others to be Truly Selfish and follow their path, following our own path becomes truly effortless.

Attractive & Magnetic

Pure Energy is Attractive.

Pure Energy is Attractive to similar pure Energy.

Divided energy is magnetic.

Divided energy is magnetically attracted to become whole, undivided and pure.

Pure Attractive Energy is undivided by wavelength, frequency or vibration.

Energy is differentiated by its wavelength and frequency. Its combination of wavelength and frequency determines its vibration.

Opposing wavelengths of the same frequency are magnetically attracted to each other.

Opposing wavelengths are the same wavelength viewed from opposing perspectives.

Space appears to give frequency a direction. Opposing directions and frequencies are just a perspective of Time.

A pure unopposed frequency will combine with a pure unopposed wavelength to create a pure vibration of Energy that is whole and Divinely Attracive.

Like is drawn unto itself by the Law of Attraction.

Opposites attract each other magnetically.

Spiritual Intimacy

Spiritual Intimacy is being connected to our partner in a physical, mental and emotional way.

It occurs when two partners share the same time, space and reality.

It occurs when two partners share the same power, authority and ability.

It occurs when two partners share the same energetic frequency, wavelength and vibration.

It occurs when two Souls share the same growth opportunity together.

Spiritual Intimacy is the joining together of two Souls, where the harmony, balance and concordance of energy is grounded in the physical realm.

The experience of Spiritual Intimacy is like bringing Heaven to Earth.

It is grounding the Spiritual in the Physical through the merging of the mental and emotional states of Being of both partners.

Spiritual Intimacy is when two Souls experience Oneness.

Before we can experience Spiritual Intimacy with another Soul, we are first required to experience Spiritual intimacy with our own Soul.

Distinctions of the Soul

Connected or Attached

We are attached to physical and material possessions and dramas.

We are connected emotionally to our Spiritual Vision & Purpose.

Emotional or Sensitive

We connect our Self sensitively to our Soul to feel its guidance.

We attach our self emotionally to another to discover their emotional state of Being and their emotional needs, to see if they can meet our emotional needs.

Exclusive or Excluding

We exclude others from our Life in order to find space, to be alone or to be aloof.

We are exclusively on our chosen path when we follow our divine authority and connect to our exclusive power.

Our Soul: Is exclusively, emotionally, connected to our Self.

Our Self: Seeks to be sensitively, rationally, detached to Life.