Order & Chaos

We create order in our life to avoid our problems becoming chaotic.

We believe that an orderly life is problem free because a chaotic life is full of problems.

Chaos is an accumulation of too many unresolved problems.

Order does not solve problems, it systemises them.

When our life follows the same order, we create the same reality, and only create problems that we know that we can solve.

Order does not avoid problems, it creates solvable problems.

Whether we choose order or chaos, we still encounter problems.

The difference between order and chaos is the number and magnitude of the problems that we are currently faced with.

Effortless flow in life has no order and no chaos. Life just flows without resistance encountering orderly-chaos and chaotic-order.

A problem-free life, without chaos, lies in the direction of our challenges and opportunities, that are beyond the safety, security, and order of our ‘comfort-zone’.

Being Fulfilled

Being Fulfilled Is:

• Knowing my Vision.
• Living ‘On Purpose’.
• Experiencing my ‘True Values’.
• Knowing who I am.
• Knowing why I am here.
• Living without problems.
• Accepting my challenges.
• Allowing my opportunities.
• The Omniscience of all Knowing.
• Our Destiny, and our Destiny is to fulfill our Destiny.
• Making wise choices.
• Unlimited Self-Confidence.
• Being filled full of our own Authority.
• Shining our Light.

Obsessive, Compulsive, Behaviour.

Excessive means ‘too much’.

Excessive behaviour is seen as an obsession.

Compulsive means ‘to have to’.

Obsessive, Compulsive behaviour is due to having too many ‘have tos’.

Have-tos, musts, ought-tos, and shoulds, are all programmes that we have been taught to do, that are not our personal conscious choice, and are therefore without our own authority. 

Compulsory behaviour is what we do without thinking. It is a sub-conscious reaction with which we have been programmed by someone else’s authority.

Routines, habits and addictions are all orderly activities that we do regularly without consciously thinking.

Compulsory behaviour becomes obsessive when it takes over our life and becomes other than what we consciously want.

Behaviour becomes excessive and obsessive once we are no longer in control of what we are doing.

Orderly behaviour, that is routine, becomes disorderly and chaotic when we no longer choose to do it but are unable to stop.

We tolerate doing what we have-to, ought-to, should, or must.

When our tolerations become intolerable, our behaviour has become obsessive and compulsive.

Fate & Destiny

Fate and Destiny are not the same thing. They are not a singularity.

Fate and destiny are not opposing forces. They are not a duality.

Fate and Doom are a duality of fortune and misfortune, that are the result of luck or chance.

The Triality or 3rd Way out of the duality of fate & doom is our Destiny.

Our Destiny is neither our fate nor our doom. It is neither our fortune nor our misfortune.

We do not follow our Destiny by chance, nor do we need to be lucky.

We follow our Destiny by Choice.

We follow our fate or our doom by not consciously choosing.

Einstein knew that “God does not play dice”. Our Life is not a game of chance.

Our life is a chance to explore, experience and discover our Destiny, unless we deal in fate or doom.

Our Soul is the ‘dealer’, our Self is the ‘player’. Our Soul has already chosen the cards. We just have to play them.

Meekness

Meek people are followers of another’s authority.

Religion nurtures meek followers who follow the word of the Lord of their Religion.

Meek people are disconnected from their own exclusive path and are following the inclusive path of another.

Meek people do not get angry because they never resist the path that their ego has chosen.

Meek people are the victims of wrath, which is the word of another Man.

Meekness invites victimhood because disconnected from our own authority, we have no power.

Meekness requires patience because without power our creative ability is rendered useless.

Meek people are at the mercy of life instead of being the creators of their life.

The meek shall inherit the Earth. Unfortunately the physical world of Earth is without the paradise of Heaven.

Wrath

Our Wrath is our ‘Word’ (our Wrote).

Our Word is the attention or focus that we apply to a thought.

Our Wrath is the emotion on which we transmit our thoughts, words and actions.

When our thoughts, words and deeds are the will of the ego self, we experience the ‘wrath of Man’.

The wrath of Man has become associated with anger, because anger is the emotion that we feel when our will is frustrated by our lack of power.

Wrath is deemed a sin when the will of our ego is disconnected from the choice of our Soul.

When our will is disconnected from our Soul, we hit resistance and we experience an emotional negativity that we call anger.

The ‘Wrath of God’ is not God’s anger but our Soul’s Word.

God’s Word is God’s Will that all Men have the choice to discern and follow their own wrath.

God is Divine and incapable of anger.

Man’s Wrath or Word defines his exclusive meaning for Life.

Problems, Challenges & Opportunities

A problem is a negative occurence that needs to be solved.

A problem is seen to be bad because it is something that we do not want.

A challenge may be either a positive or a negative situation, depending on whether we succeed in the challenge or not.

A challenge may be viewed as good or bad depending on whether the outcome is a success or a failure. It is not the challenge that is good or bad but our perspective of the outcome.

An opportunity is a positive experience that we accept without hesitation.

An opportunity is good because it will give us what we think or know that we want.

A situation, an occurence and an experience are all the same thing. However how we perceive them is always down to our own unique, individual and exclusive perspective of Life.

Whether Life is a challenge, a problem, or an opportunity is just a matter of personal choice.

Whether we see Life as a challenge, a problem or an opportunity is indicative of our Emotional Energy.

Loving & Liking

We love (need) someone who gives us emotional power (positive energy).

We fear someone who takes away (drains) our emotional power.

We like (are like) someone who shares and endorses our authority (positive choices).

We hate someone who takes away or deprives us of our authority and choice.

We love (need) someone of the opposite gender because they make us feel whole.

We like (are like) someone of a similar polarity because they share our beliefs and our reality.

People who we like, who are like us, become our friends because we share the same interests or are interested in similar (like) things.

People who we love, are people who we need, because they make us feel whole.

Friends are people who meet our emotional needs. We either like or love them depending on whether they meet our need for power or authority.

We need people who we either like or love until we learn to connect consciously to our own Source of Power & Authority (our Inner Coach).

Once connected to our own Power and Authority, we can share the Power of our Love with others of a Like Authority, who make congruent choices and create concordant realities.

Feelings & Emotions

Our Soul is Pure Feeling.

Our Self experiences emotions.

Our Soul’s Feelings are Pure Love.

Pure Love is what our Soul Feels for our Self.

Pure Love is the sum of all our emotional states of Being.

When we receive Feelings from our Soul, we interpret them through our thoughts, as emotions.

Feelings have no positive or negative polarity, no gender and only one intensity.

Emotion or the motion of energy is experienced according to the polarity, gender and intensity of the thoughts that our mind receives and interprets.

The only Pure Emotion is Love. All other emotions are aspects of Love, even negative emotions, which are negative aspects of Love.

Negative emotions are created by negative thoughts and beliefs that we call fears.

Our Soul has only Feeling because it possesses no limiting beliefs, programmes or fears.

Feeling is experiencing our Soul’s Energy in Motion.

Connected

Connected means ‘in communication with’.

When we connect to our Inner Coach, we are in communication with our Soul.

To connect we require our own Space.

To connect we require our own Time.

To connect we require our own Reality.

Meditation is how we connect to our own Space-Time-Reality.

When we connect, we hear the revelations of our Soul.

When we connect, we see the images/visions/dreams of our Soul.

When we connect, we feel the inspiration of our Soul.

When we connect, we know how to manifest what we have chosen.

When we connect, we see the genius of our Soul’s creativity.

When we connect, we feel the realisation of who we really are.

Well-Being

Well-being is not a condition.

Well-being is being well, which is a state of Being.

In our state of Being well, we are without conditions to the contrary.

Well-being is an emotional state of Being, as is Happiness.

When we place conditions on our Well-being, it depreciates in value.

Well-being is the value of our self-worth.

We are either being worthy of who we really are, or we are not.

Not being well is the result of the conditions that we have created in our Life.

Our Well-being is not conditional.

We have been given the potential for unconditional Well-being. We just have to be well unconditionally.

When we put conditions on our Well-being, we experience being un-well, ill and dis-eased.

The System

The system is our fate.

Our fate is to live in a dualistic world of relative and opposing opposites. This is the system.

According to the system, we always have two choices. We quickly learn to deny the choice called bad and to choose the choice called good.

The system dictates that everything is either right or wrong, good or bad, positive or negative.

The system determines what is good or bad for us, what is acceptable or unacceptable.

It appears that our only choice is to accept the system and be good or reject the system and be bad.

The system declares winners to be those who rise to the top of the system, to become celebrities, personalities, characters of leadership, and good examples of the system.

The only True Winners in Life are those who learn to overcome the system.

We will never Live our Destiny following the system.

God & Goddess

God and Goddess are not a duality, they are the same thing.

God or Goddess is Divinity, which has no duality and no gender.

There is no such thing as male and female divinity.

Divinity is the state of Being Godlike or Goddess-like, and it requires the balance and unity of both our male and female energy.

We are able to worship a false divinity or a false god or goddess because we always have choice.

A false god or goddess is a representaion of the false characteristics that Man believes that a god or goddess has.

A false god has a male personality, whereas a false goddess has a female personality.

As god is believed to live in heaven, it is also believed that heaven’s counterpart of Earth is the goddess gaia. Yet neither are Truly Divine.

Seeing the Creator as either God or Goddess is just a human choice and an individual perspective of Divinity.

Impotence

Impotence is being impotent, which is without power.

Omni-potent is Being all-powerful.

When we are impotent, we are without power and we need emotional power.

Our Soul gives us the energy to be emotionally potent.

Female impotence creates a lack of passion and desire to unite with a mate.

Male impotence creates penile misfunction, although the passion and desire of the ego may remain.

An emotionally disconnected man or woman will have no awareness that their impotency is the result of their lack of emotional energy.

When we are driven by our sub-conscious ego to get our emotional needs met, we are not acting with our true potency but seeking to regain our emotional energy through the act of sexual union.

We lose our potency within a sexual relationship, when we are no longer developing and spiritually growing.

We stop growing when we lose our authority to make our own choices. When we lose our authority, we lose our power and become impotent in life and love.

The act of sexual union is an essential aspect of spiritual growth and development. It was never designed as a means of getting our emotional needs met or as a reward for someone meeting our emotional needs.

The mis-use of sexual relationships always leads to our loss of power and impotency.

Disconnected from our True Source of Power, we lose our True Potential and become eventually impotent.

‘Man’

‘Man’ is the physical manifestation of Soul.

Woman & man is a duality of divided gender that is separated from their Soul.

The Soul is not divided by gender, nor is ‘Man’.

For a man or woman to become ‘Man’ as a physical incarnation, they are required to re-unite their opposing genders.

When man & woman experience a ‘coming’ together energetically they both, for a brief moment in time, experience the Oneness of Man & Soul.

The ‘Son of Man’ has the ‘Ability of Man’ to be united in their male and female gender, as is their Soul.

By the Law of Attraction, male and female energy will always seek to become re-united.

When male energy seeks female energy, it is called lust or wanting sex.

When female energy seeks male energy, it is called love or needing romance.

A True Soul connection is when ‘Man’ has the ability to share their Love & their Light with their fellow ‘Man’.