Connecting to Source

When we are disconnected from the Source of our Power, our energy is divided by intensity, polarity and gender.

The intensity of our energy is divided by being either extrovert and active or introvert and passive.

The polarity of our energy is divided by being positively expansive or negatively contractive.

The gender of our energy is divided by being hot and femine or cold and masculine.

To connect to our Source of Power, we are required to:

• Moderate our Intensity and become ‘overt’.
• Neutralise our polarity and be in ‘equanimity’.
• Unite our gender and be ‘temperate’ (warm & cool).

To be in the Oneness of our Soul and to connect to our Power requires us to attain the attributes of our Soul and make the choices of our Soul.

Our Soul resides in the effortlessness of the Divine Flow, the stillness of the Divine Gap, and in the presence of the Divine Now.

Control Dramas

Control Dramas are how we compete for energy with other people.

Control Dramas are our sub-conscious way of gaining power from and over other people.

How we control the energy that flows between people is a sub-conscious drama that is learned from an early age.

Control Dramas are either passive or active and either introvert or extrovert.

Introverts who passively control energy are ‘Aloof’.

Extroverts who passively control energy are ‘Interrogators’.

Introverts who actively control energy are ‘Poor Me’s’.

Extroverts who actively control energy are ‘Intimidators’.

The energy of the Intimidator is high intensity, male gender with a negative polarity.

The energy of the Interrogator is low intensity, female gender with a negative polarity.

The energy of the Poor Me is high intensity, female gender with a negative polarity.

The energy of the Aloof is low intensity, male gender with a negative polarity.

Like intensities are attracted to opposing genders with similar polarities.

Therefore an Interrogator will attract an Aloof and an Intimidator will attract a Poor Me.

Once we balance the intensity, unite the gender and neutralise the polarity of our energy, we will no longer attract control dramas in our Life.

Intuition

Intuition is our 6^th sense and our spiritual intelligence. What we call our sixth sense is in reality our 3 spiritual senses.

Our 5 physical senses are how we experience the conscious physical world with our eyes, ears, touch, smell and taste.

Our 3 intuitive senses are how we become aware and experience the spiritual world of energy by ‘seeing’, ‘feeling’ and ‘knowing’.

Those who use their intuitive sense of knowing are called ‘Gnostics’.

Those who use their intuitive sense of feeling (including intuitive taste and smell) are called ‘Sensitives’.

Those who use their intuitive sense of seeing are called ‘Seers’ or ‘Visionaries’.

We are ‘conscious’ of the physical material world. We are ‘aware’ of the spiritual intuitive world of energy. We are consciously-aware when we use all our physical and intuitive senses together.

‘Instinct’ is reactive and often negative and fear driven. Its purpose is survival.

‘Intuition’ is pro-active and responsive and always positive. Its purpose is personal development and spiritual growth.

Instinct is controlled by our sub-conscious mind. Intuition is guidance from our super-conscious mind.

The Source of our Intuition is called many things:

·         Our Source

·         Our Inner Tutor (Inner Tuition)

·         Our Wise Teacher

·         Our Inner Guidance System

·         Our Inner Self

·         Our Real Self

·         Our Unconscious Self

·         Our Still Small Voice

·         Our Core Essence

·         Our Heart

·         Our Supreme Consciousness

·         Our Soul

·         Our Inner Coach

Wanting & Needing

Wanting is what the conscious ego thinks it needs.

Needing is what the sub-conscious ego (the id) thinks it wants.

We need something when we sub-consciously believe that it is necessary.

Something is necessary when our conscious ego decides it wants it.

Problems occur when our wants and needs are in conflict.

When we are in doubt and conflict as to whether our wants and needs are necessary, then our id and ego are not congruent, and we are sub-consciously creating resistance to our conscious desires.

Conflict between our conscious and sub-conscious self is procrastination and will always result in opportunities being missed and problems being created.

Our Soul and Inner Coach is never in conflict and always knows what its Self really wants and needs.

The Soul has no distinction between wants and needs, and sees all new choices as opportunities for growth.

Being Valid

Being Valid is having a reason or purpose for Being.

We exist as Human Beings in order to experience Being.

Without a purpose and a sense of value and worth, we will need to be validated or approved by others.

The need to be validated will hinder our decision making because without the validation that we need, we will risk failure and being wrong.

Our Inner Coach, the Soul, has granted our Self unconditional choice.

From the perspective of our Soul, whatever choice that we make, is valid.

Whenever we make a choice, we become valid, because we are here to choose.

Our Inner Coach is not a judgemental Soul. It never disapproves or invalidates our choice.

The only failure is the failure to choose, which is never valid and never approved.

Failure to choose brings us more of the same and inhibits personal growth.

All possibilities exist and all choices are valid.

To be valid, we just have to choose.

Ego & Soul

The ego gains confidence by accumulating knowledge and power over others.

The ego feels worthy by accumulating money and material assets.

The ego becomes esteemed by accumulating status and influence over others.

The Soul has confidence by virtue of its authority and ability to make choices.

The Soul has value and worth by virtue of its power to be who it really is.

The Soul has esteem by virtue of its ability to use its power and authority creatively.

The Soul is confident in its Self and confides in the Truth of its Self.

The Soul is worthy of its power and values the power that its Self has access to.

The Soul is esteemed by the ability of its Self to be, do and have what it passionately desires.

The ego relies on other people to attest to its worth, affirm its confidence and acknowledge its esteem.

Passion & Desire

We have a passion for what we feel that we need emotionally.

We have a desire for what we think that we want materially.

A passion without desire is an emotional need.

A desire without passion is a limiting belief.

Wanting or desiring what we do not need is lust.

Needing or being passionate for what we do not want, is being needy.

A passionate desire is needing what we want and wanting what we need.

When our passions and desires come into union, they are Divine.

We can be, do and have whatever we choose.

It is only Divine when we need with a passion, want with a desire and choose with a passionate desire, who we are being, what we are having and how we are doing.

Mutual Appreciation

Our Soul is unconditionally approving, accepting and allowing of our Self, and therefore totally appreciating of its Self.

The Soul wholely approves of who the Self is Being, allows the Self to have whatever it chooses, and accepts all activities that the Self actions. It has given the Self unconditional Choice.

The Purpose of the Self is to become totally affirming, attesting and acknowledging of its Soul, thereby coming into mutual appreciation with its Soul.

The role of the Appreciative Self is to:

• Affirm the authority of its Soul, by making the choices of its Soul.
• Attest the attributes of its Soul, by Being who the Soul is.
• Acknowledge the ability of its Soul to realise, manifest and create its own Reality.

The reality of the Soul is called ‘Heaven’.

When the Self realises, manifests and creates the Reality of its Soul, it brings Heaven to Earth.

To align with the Soul, the Self is required to become unconditionally approving, accepting and allowing of all others. Only then will all others reflect these attributes of the Soul to its Self.

To align with the Soul, the Self is required to affirm, attest and acknowledge its Soul, in an act of mutual appreciation of its Self and its Soul.

Ontology

Ontology is the nature of Being.

Who we are Being is our nature.

Our nature is not a reflection of Nature but a reflection of who we are Being in any moment of time.

Ontology is the study of the essence of who we are Being.

Our personality is determined by our emotional needs.

Our character is determined by the limiting beliefs that decide our behaviour and the role that we are playing.

Our behaviour is determined by our standards and our boundaries, which are our beliefs and convictions.

Our True Identity is a reflection of our True Values.

Our True Identity is our Natural State of Being.

We are Naturally Well, Naturally Happy, and Naturally Worthy, Confident and Esteemed.

Our True Nature is seldom re-presented, as it is diluted by our beliefs, fears and emotional needs, which determine our character, personality and the dramatic roles that we have chosen to enact in this life-time.

Ontology is the study of both ‘who we are’, our character and personlity, and ‘who we really are’, our True Identity.

Stillness

Stillness is the Space where Time stands still.
When Time & Space are without motion, Reality is unchanging and still.
Absolute Reality is Stillness.
Absolute Stillness is without Time, Space & Reality.
We come to this world to experience expansive growth,
Expansion and growth have motion not stillness.
Our Soul resides in the Stillness of the Realm of the Absolute.
Our Self resides in the motion of time & space that creates our dual reality world.
For the Self to commune with the Soul, requires the Self to experience stillness in motion.
Being “still, in the flow” is a space where time stands still and reality flows from our Soul to our Self.
In the Stillness of the ‘gap’, is found the ‘flow’ of each moment of ‘now’.
This is the Stillness of the “Quiet Zone”.

The Redeemer

The Redeemer is the one who reclaims their own power, authority and ability.

We redeem our power when we become who we really are.

We redeem our authority when we make the choices of our Soul.

We redeem our ability when we reclaim our power and authority.

We all have choice and the Redeemer is always at Choice.

The Redeemer remembers their Vision, Mission and Purpose for this life-time.

The Redeemer has the authority and knows the choices that are required to follow their Life Path.

The Redeemer has the power to be their authentic Self.

The Redeemer is fulfilled with wisdom, is healthy with contentment and has a wealth of joy in their life.

The Redeemer redeems their True Self in the image of their Soul, from whence they were created.

The Overcomer

The Overcomer is the one who overcomes the paradox of dual reality existence.

We live in a world of opposing opposites.

In this relative world, all things are relative to their opposing opposite reality.

The role of the Overcomer is to experience the extremes of all dualities and to find the balance.

The Overcomer brings both ends of a duality together, in unison, and eliminates the duality and the paradox.

The Overcomer finds the Third Way out of the dilemma of dual reality existence.

When confronted with two choices, the Overcomer always takes the third choice, which is Divine.

The Overcomer knows that Divinity is a triality of the Holy Trinity and involves no duality, whilst defining the Oneness of Singularity.

The Overcomer knows that the Oneness is from whence we came and the Triality of Threeness is where we are going.

Triality is the ‘trial’, the ‘quest’ and the ‘destiny’ of the Overcomer.

The Healer

The Healer is one who brings us into balance and equilibrium.

We vibrate with Good Health when we are physically, mentally and emotionally in balance.

We vibrate with Good Health when the frequency and wavelength of our energy are in synergy.

Our Reality is determined by our Space & Time.

The wavelength of our Space and the frequency of our Time, determines the vibration of our Reality.

When we have enough Space and enough Time, the intensity of our Reality is vibrating with harmony and Good Health.

Doctors, Surgeons and Physicians all treat the symptoms of our illness, bad health and disease, but seldom address the cause.

The Healer sees, knows and feels the cause of any imbalance and restores equilibrium in our physical health, emotional wealth and mental wisdom.

The qualification for Healing is to be ‘Healed’.

Our Life Path

Our Life Path is exclusive and unique to each of us individually.

Life Paths may be similar and for a time follow a similar course, but they are never the same.

Our Life Path is the journey that we can ’see’ for this life-time. It is our mission.

Our Life Path is an expression of who we have chosen to Be in this life-time.

It is our Purpose to define who we are Being, and to give ‘feeling’ to our Beingness.

Our Life Path is the Light that illuminates our Vision for this life-time.

We ‘know’ the path that we are taking, when we can see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Our Life Path is our perspective of Life, based on the reality that we consciously create in our Life.

We are distracted from our path by our limiting beliefs, our emotional needs, and the physical dramas that we get sucked into in life.

Seven Levels of Judgement

There are 7 Levels of Judgement:

1. Judgement of others. This is making choices for or about others.
2. Non-judgement of others. We decide not to openly judge or blame others, after making a judgement of others. This requires false humility and is self-righteous.
3. Judgement of Self. This is deciding whether who we are is good or bad for us. This is essential for personal development and is not to be confused with self blame or criticism.
4. Non-judgement of/by Self. This is denial or procrastination. 
5. Discernment by Self. This is following the choices of our conscious ego self.
6. Acceptance of others. This is being without tolerations and without boundaries.
7. Acceptance of Self. This requires the perspective of our Soul.

In the early stages of personal development and spiritual growth, discernment is essential to choosing what is right or wrong for our Self. It is judgement of others that impedes our own personal development.

As we influence the path of others, so will others influence and create resistance to our path.

As we learn to communicate with our Inner coach, we learn that the discernment of our Soul, is preferable to the choices of our Self and acceptance of our Soul’s Choice becomes the choice for our Self.

Only by accepting the Divinity of our Soul can we become our Soul, the image in which we were created, and move to total Acceptance of our Self.

Unless we first attain Acceptance of all others, we cannot attain Acceptance of or for our Self.