Self Discipline

Self Discipline is being a Disciple of the Self.

It is becoming a ’Follower’ of our Real Self, our Soul, not our ego self.

Self Discipline is following the messages that we receive directly from our Soul.

Our Soul knows our Life Path and our Vision, Mission and purpose for this life-time.

Following the choices of our Soul allows us to fulfil our Vision, be content with our mission and to enjoy our purpose for this life.

Becoming a Disciple of our Soul is a conscious choice.

Our Soul allows our Self unconditional choice.

Our sub-conscious choice will always default to our sub-conscious programming and beliefs until we have ‘awakened to’ (become conscious of) the existence of our own Path.

Without Self Discipline, we will follow the authority of another and endure the discipline that accompanies the choices and authority of another.

Self Discipline connects us to our True Authority, to do what we truly value, and connects us to our True Power, to be who we really are, to enable us to do what we have come here to do.

Inner Peace

Inner Peace is our natural state of Being.

Inner Peace is inhibited by our Inner conflict.

Inner conflict is a drama that is created by our lack of power and authority.

Our lack of emotional power creates a conflict between our needs and our beliefs.

Our lack of authority to choose creates a conflict between our beliefs and our needs.

Our lack of Inner Peace is always reflected in our outer world reality.

As we compete with others in our life for our emotional power, we create conflict.

As we seek to make our reality in life become the Truth for all others, we create conflict.

To connect to our Inner Peace we are required to:

• See and observe the dramas that are occuring in our life.
• Know that our Truth and Reality are unique to our Self.
• Feel the power that is available to us from our Source.

Selfish & Unselfish

Being Selfish is doing the will of the ego self, which is often detrimental or in opposition to the will of another.

Being unselfish is doing the will of someone else’s ego self, which is often detrimental to our self.

Being selfish is being proud, greedy, envious, vain and arrogant.

Being unselfish is being humble, pleasing, kind, modest and meek.

Selfish & Unselfish are a dual reality of the same energy.

Being selfish is detrimental to another because they can only co-operate by being unselfish.

Being unselfish is detrimental to another because it makes them become selfish.

We overcome the duality when we become Truly Selfish.

Being Truly Selfish is never detrimental to another and always follows the authority and choice of our True Self – our Soul & Inner Coach.

Relationship

The purpose of Relationship is to see who we are Being.

Who we are being in relationship to another is reflected to us in our relationship with them.

This is the Law of Attraction in action.

The drama of how we relate to other people is determined by our emotional needs and our fears or limiting beliefs.

When we learn the ability to relate to people within our own personal power and authority, we no longer need the drama of relationships.

When we no longer need relationships, we are free to consciously choose our relationship to other people.

When we are free to choose with whom we have a relationship, we are free to share our time, space and reality with people who share our time-space-reality.

The only True Relationship is between our Self and our Soul.

How well we relate to our Self determines how well we relate to our Soul.

How much we Love our Self determines how much we allow our Soul to Love our Self.

Our Soul does not need the Love of its Self. Our Soul unconditionally Loves its Self.

It is our Self that is required to: Love its Self as its Soul Loves its Self, so as to connect to the True Power of the Soul.

Love, Power & Space

Love, Power & Space are three different perspectives of the same thing.

They are all synonyms for our Personal Emotional Energy, which is our State of Beingness.

When our emotional power is low, we either need to be Loved by another or we need to get away from another and find our Space.

In our Space, we connect to our Source of Emotional Power that is Love.

When we connect to another emotionally, we share our Space, feel Loved, and feel connected to our Power.

Our need to be Loved and our need for Space are created by our disconnection from our Emotional Power.

When we have enough Space and enough Love, we no longer need boundaries to protect our power from an energetic attack from another.

When we need to contain our emotional Power, it is limited and vulnerable to attack from another who needs our Love and will trespass across our boundaries and into our Space.

It is in the ‘gap’ of Space that we connect to our True Power of Love.

Acceptance & Forgiveness

Forgiveness is given by the Soul.

Acceptance is received by the Self.

Acceptance & Forgiveness are both given by the Soul and received by the Self.

The Self accepts whatever is forgiven by the Soul.

The Soul forgives whatever is accepted by the Self.

Acceptance & Forgiveness are:

• The same energy seen from opposing perspectives
• An act of giving and receiving between the Soul and the Self
• Without judgment, blame or conviction.
• Without any toleration of unacceptable behaviour
• Aspects of unconditional Love
• The same Attribute to an enlightened Being
• The choice of the Soul and the Self to be in perfect harmony
• The Self following the Path of its Soul
• Knowing who we are and why we are here

Forgiveness of the Self by the Self, requires the Self to be unconditionally Approving, Allowing & Accepting.

Forgiveness is Accepting whatever turns up and is occuring; Approving of whoever we are Being; and Allowing Abundance to manifest and materialise in our Life.

The Power of Attraction

The potential ability of the Ego Self to Attract what it wants is equal to the magnitude of its power, which is relative to its force of authority to choose.

Our Soul has the omnipotent power to choose, it has Sovereignty over our Self, yet it has delegated the ability to choose to its Self.

The Self’s ability to choose is dependent on it having both power and authority.

The Self can only connect to the Soul’s Power when it connects to the Soul’s Authority, which is the Soul’s Choice.

When the Ego Self chooses other than what is its Soul’s choice, it loses its power of attraction.

In the absence of its power to attract what it chooses, the Ego Self will have to use will power to obtain what it wants.

Will power takes a lot of effort, hard work, and a lot of time and although it can be productive, it is not creative.

Creating, manifesting and realising something entirely new, exclusive and unique requires both the power and the authority of our Soul.

Inspiration, Invention and Innovation require the Power of Attraction, will power will not suffice.

Our Power of Attraction is relative to how ‘Energetically Attractive’ we are.

Our energetic power of attraction requires the attainment of divine attributes that allow us to do what we Truly Value.

Our Self-worth and personal ‘Value’, which is a measure of our emotional state of being, determines the potential of our Power of Attraction.

This is why we are required to be the energy vibrational equivalent of that which we seek to attract into our Life.

Unless we are the vibrational equivalent of our choice, we have neither the authority nor the Power of Attraction.

The Law of Unattraction

The Law of Unattraction states that:

“Energy is divided by its frequency & wavelength.”

This means that emotional states of Being are differentiated by their energy vibration.

In Absolute Reality there is no division and no separation – All is One.

In the state of Being in Absolute Oneness, everything is attracted to everything and nothing is attractive because there is nothing else to Attract.

In the Realm of Divided Relative Dual Reality, the law of unattraction allows separation and division, which allows opposing energetic states to be, which allows choice to exist.

Without the law of unattraction, attraction and choice cannot exist.

Like energy can only be drawn unto itself once it has become separate and divided and the possibility of it being unattractive exists.

Without unattractive energy and unattractive thoughts, there would only be One Thought, which is no thought at all.

We cannot choose to be Attractive without first experiencing being unattractive.

Without different frequencies, wavelengths and vibrations, energy would have no gender, polarity or intensity. Unique thoughts and choice could not exist.

“Be Unto Others”

“Be unto others as you would have them be unto you”. This is the Golden Rule.

Our Soul is not interested in ‘what we are doing’, only ‘who we are being’ whilst we are doing it.

Action is the the vehicle through which we are able to express the emotional state of being that we are being in any moment of time.

Who we are being in any moment of time defines the reality of that moment.

It is not what others do unto us that is as important as who they are being whilst they are doing it.

The state of being, that is being emotionally expressed by another, is a reflection of that which we are required to look at in our Self, in order to see our alignment with our Path.

Once we are accepting of what others do, approving of who others are, and allowing of what others have, we  become the best that we can be unto others without interference to their Path.

This is the only way to remove the interference that others are causing to our Path.

“Follow your own Path”

“Follow your own path and let others follow their path”, this is the Golden Rule.

By the Law of Attraction, when we allow others to follow their own path, others allow us to follow ours.

Our own Life Mission is to follow our own Path.

Only our own Soul knows our own Path.

Only another’s Soul knows their Path.

We cannot know another’s Path, therefore whatever path they take, we are required to accept and allow them to follow.

It is not our purpose to correct others on their path, as we cannot know their correct path.

We can never know whether the path of another is at the direction of their ego self or their Divine Self.

Our own Purpose is to follow the Path of our Divine Self, which is the Divine Reflection of our Soul.

Only by becoming the Divine Reflection of our Soul can we direct others on their Divine Path.

“Love thy Neighbour as Thyself”

When Jesus said: “Love thy neighbour as thyself”, he was speaking from the perspective of his Soul.

Our Soul unconditionally loves our Self, infinitely, eternally and continuously.

Our Soul is at one with all other Souls as well as our Self.

Our True Nature is to be at One with all others.

Other people are just a reflection of our Self.

Our love for our neighbour is always a direct reflection of our love for our Self.

To unconditionally ‘Love our Self’ is to unite our Self with our Soul.

In unity with our Soul, we access our full authority, which connects us to our unlimited power.

The paradox is that only when we love our Self can we access the Power of Love, which is our Love for our Self.

Only when we love our Self unconditionally, as our Soul loves our Self, can we unconditionally love our neighbour as our Self.

The extent to which we are disconnected from other people is the magnitude of the disconnection from our True Self.

The Golden Rule is: “Love thy Self”.

“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”

This is one interpretation of the Golden Rule.

The challenge that this rule presents is knowing how we wish others to ‘do unto us’.

The Golden Rule is ” Follow your own path and allow others to follow their path”.

Other people then become our guide on our path.

Other people reflect to us who we are being. This is the purpose of all relationships.

When the actions of others are unwanted, they are a reflection of a shift that we need to make our self, in order to re-align with our path.

The Golden Rule becomes: “Observe what others are doing unto you because this is their message for you”.

What others do unto you is an expression of their beliefs and their emotional needs contained within their dramas.

By the Law of Attraction, we have attracted this behaviour to our self in order for us to see that it is a reflection of our own behaviour.

Once we learn to sensitively-detach from another’s drama and see their needs and beliefs in an emotionally-rational way, we are able to see their behaviour as a message and a gift that we receive as an opportunity to learn our lesson and follow our true path in an exclusively-connected way.

Debt

“Our Soul will not pay the debts of our Ego”.

Debt is a construct of our ego self.

Debt is a belief in scarcity and not enough.

Debt is the cost of borrowing what we believe that we do not have.

It is the will of the ego that takes us into debt and therefore it is the will of our ego that is required to pay our debts.

Debt is incurred when we lend or borrow things or money.

We lend and borrow what we are not prepared to give and receive.

When we own and use what is lent and not given, there is a cost to pay, which is called a debt.

Our Soul is unconditionally giving of everything that is required on our agreed path in life.

Our Soul is unconditionally receiving of the expansive growth and experience of following that path.

When we choose the will of our ego instead of the Path of our Soul, we will encounter both scarcity and debt.

The only debt we owe is one of Gratitude to our Soul.

Guilt

Guilt is the false belief or fear that we can get things wrong.

In Absolute Reality there is no right or wrong and therefore guilt cannot exist.

Divine Innocence is not a duality of guilt but the absence of guilt and the absence of any judgment of being right or wrong.

Our only guilt in Life is to lose our Innocence.

Forgiveness is not the act of atoning for or admonishing our guilt.

Forgiveness is the attainment of knowing that there can be no guilt in the first place.

In the absence of guilt, forgiveness is unnecessary, we already have it, we are just required to attain it and to experience it.

Attaining Forgiveness requires the cessation of judgment that apportions blame, that convicts guilt, and sentences justice.

Forgiveness Just Is.

When guilt just isn’t, justice is served.

Innocence is Fore-given, it is our birthright and our Natural State of Being.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is:

• Giving ahead of time.
• Accepting whatever turns up in life knowing that at some level we have created it.
• Accepting our ‘Path’ without tolerations, needs or boundaries.
• Receiving in our life what we have covenanted to appear in our life.
• Receiving all situations in life as an opportunity for personal development and spiritual growth.
• Receiving our ‘Daily Bread’ without judgment of our self or others.
• Choosing our path without the judgments of our past or the expectations of our future.
• Allowing what is, to be and what is to be, to be.
• The ‘At Onement’ of knowing that what we do unto others will be done unto our Self.
• The ‘Discernment’ of our Soul without the judgment of our Ego.
• A Love that holds no grievance or remorse.